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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi. i read my bofys emails and found out that when we had an argument and split up for a few days, a couple of weeks ago, he joined an internet dating site. I dont think he has had any contact with any girls on the site since joining but it has still upset me that he has even done this. Things have been really good since we got back together and i felt we had sorted things and that i really trusted him. However now i feel unsure again. I have told him that I know about the site and asked him why he had joined but he just denied it and hasn't given me a reason.
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reader, Cindy303  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 This is interesting to me. Your first sentence is "I read my bofys emails". Then you go on a few setences later to say "I felt that we had sorted things and that I really trusted him.....". You read his personal and private emails while you had split up and now your not sure if you can trust him after he signed up for a dating service. What he did when you split up was his choice. He could have gone out every single night the entire time you were split up and it would not have mattered. I always have said when you go getting into something thats not your business (his email) be ready to handle what you find out. I hope this works out now that your back together and I would suggest leaving this email alone.
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