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*shboo2yu
writes:I met my ex boyfriend in 7th Grade and we dated and broke up for his cheating ways...which last for 5 to 6 years..He tells me he loves me all the time and i feel he do but it hurts to know he will cheat again and again. Now at this moment he apologized about him breaking my heart everything that he did to me..i forgave him. He asked me when are we getting back together and i would say never because im so hurt..and when i say never it hurts me more to say it to him and i fall for him again. Sometimes i feel trapped in a relationship i don't want to be in at times and then i will think about him constantly that it makes me cry because im confused about US...What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Once a cheater always a cheater I always say.
You said yourself that his cheating ways have gone on for 6years. How much longer do you want it to continue?
I think you should finda guy that deserves you, because you deserve better, and you deserve someone who can see what is right in front of him (:
Good Luck!
I hope it works out.
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reader, Ashboo2yu +, writes (14 May 2009):
Ashboo2yu is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the advice guys...i would take that into consideration.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): You have said yourself you were not happy in the relationship and if it's been like that for years he's unlikely to change. Try to be strong, cut down or cut out contact so you can get over him, build up other areas of your life so you have other things to focus on. Once you are over him you stand a better chance of meeting someone who is faithful and makes you happy.
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reader, BethyBoo  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 You should end this. I know its hard but it the right thing. His cheating way are bad for you. Try being sinlge for a while, or meet new guys. Spend more time and distract yourself with friends. Be stong and stand by what you say :)
best wishes xx
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