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writes:I discovered that my husband of 16 years was having an affair with a work colleague. I had my suspicions and constantly confronted him. He finally told me and then left to cross the world to be with her. All this time he was telling me he loved me and we were still having a good sex life. He filed for a divorce but would not move out. I was so confused and went along with all this hurt because he kept making me feel he loved me. I married him again just recently but now I feel so distraught and angry and can not go near him as I can not get over the fact that he slept with someone else. Is this sweet revenge or can shock of something like an affair come 3 years later?
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reader, flower girl +, writes (30 June 2007):
 You have been through alot i can see that but you both obviously think enough of each other to start again, it may well be now that you need to go to marriage counselling to sort out the issues that caused him to stray in the first place, and it may also help you get over what he done.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007): When it involves a work colleague, it is very difficult because he is probably spending more time with her than you. If you and he have re-married he obviously wants to be with you but need to find out what it was that made him cheat in the first place.
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