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writes:I'm 14 and my bf is 13 almost 14 and weve been going out for a little over a month (we broke up for 5months from an 8month relationship with each other) but any ways....his mom wont let us see each other over the weekends!! and its becoming very hard for both of us because we really cant do anything in school and at small parties my bf wont kiss me what so ever! (we cuddle, im on his lap, we talk, its all good but no kissing!)His mom has taken away his cell!! (so he cant talk to me!!) I dont know why his mom is being like this but its driving both of us crazy!! We cant go to a movie, i cant go to his house, and he cant come to mine! His parents rarely let him on his computer (and hes busy most of the time) so he can barly email me!! It SUCKS!! and i dont know how to get his mom to let us see each other!!I've known his mom like forever! and she knows me...and im a good girl who gets fairly good grades (b's and a's and sometimes c's) but for sum reason his mom wont let us see each other!!Pls give me advise on how both of us can help his mom let us see each other!!pls pls pls help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year my mom doesnt like him and wont let me see him his dad wont let him see me and now we cant see each other any more and im bout to be 14 hes 15 bout to be 16 i need help
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (4 February 2007):
 I have to say I agree with my colleage who answered before me, your friend IS only 13, hardly the age to start dating. That's why he won't kiss you in front of his friends, HE'S TOO EMBARRASSED! As you both grow older that will leave him and he won't care what others think. I also think his mom is right regarding the cell phone. If he has a cell phone she bought it for him so she knows where he is, as a safety measure to make sure he doesn't wander off. She doesn't want him to run up huge bills calling you all the time.
I suggest you both remain friends for now, both of you focus more on your studies and in time, if he still likes you (I'm talking about a few years from now) then by all means get together again but you are both much too young to be seriously dating at this age.
Eve
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (4 February 2007):
 "For some reason his mom won't let him see you." Let's see . . . the fact that he is 13 might have something to do with it. They took away his cell phone? The nerve of them. LOL. What does a 13 year old need a cell phone for? They should have never given him one in the first place. You complain about him being busy. He probably stays busy doing things that are going to be more beneficial to his future than having you sitting on his lap. You sound like you're 14 going on 25, with a bad case of the "hot to trot." You need to cool your jets and get involved with some activities that don't involve having a boyfriend.
If his mother doesn't want you being with him, then listen to his mother and stay away. Mothers know best. And if you aren't careful, you'll be one sooner than you want to be.
Good luck!
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