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writes:Well all i ca say is it isnt my first time of breaking up, so why is it so god damn hard? I've been with Gav a year ad a half things was great..(thats how it is) and month after month we was getting fed up of each other, he knew i wasnt happy but i had to try and change myself to make me happy so i wouldnt hurt him...A few sundays ago he was at the pub with his uncle and didnt know what time he'd be back so i phoned my friend to see if she wanted to go for a drink with me seeing as i didnt know where he was, i sent him a text to say if your in the mood, come up to see us when u get home..(So he did) And i was called a spiteful bi*ch because he says i went out because he did..Why does that make me spiteful?? Such a horrible word! But i am only 20 and hes 21..Arent we meant to enjoy our selves? Why should i sit in my house all alone while hes out drinking and having a good time?Now hes constantly phoning me, begging me to take him back, im being strong by saying no..But what can i do to get over this?
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reader, NuttyGooner +, writes (2 March 2007):
 Recall the words "Spiteful bitch" each and everytime you are remotely tempted to go back to this soul destroying git - it worked for me!You let him know where you were, you invited him along, as you said, he didn't return the same courtesy, why allow yourself to get treated like that?You're worth so much more than his cruel words and deserve to be more than a faithful lap dog and verbal punch bag!Keep strong, honey - if you do take him back, he will get much, much worse!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): If this relationship has been one where you don't get along all that well, and he wants to call you names when you invited him to join you and you feel you have to change, then I think you are probably better off apart. You both have some maturing to do, and maybe playing the field would suit you both better...nothing wrong with being single.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Hi honey,
You only let him know where you was that to me doesn't mean your spiteful....
Your obviously very hurt by this did you explain to him you didn't mind him being out enjoying himself so you used the time to have fun with your girlfriend? (So you are left with precious time the rest of the week to spend with him)
Your angry at the moment and he is probably feeling guilty for calling you spiteful so maybe you should meet up with him explain how he hurt your feelings but you really didn't mind him being out....Communication and trust is so important to any relationship for it to work,If you really feel it is over he does deserve an explaination, just see how it goes hun....
Good luck babe x
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reader, Uncle Stu +, writes (26 February 2007):
 No way. Never go back for that. he's not worth it. talking to you like that is over the top. no way dont go back to him. NEVER!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): No you should not find a bloke and just get back at him then he shall come running back or even tell his NEW girlfriend if he has one that he is cheating on her
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