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writes: My bf broke up with me 1 month ago,we were together on and off for 1 yr. He said the truth is that he didnt want it to work out between us coz im too old for him.(I33,HE20). he is still in school,living with parents.The reason we've been together was he liked my personality and appearance, (i look 10 yrs younger than real age)although i tried to avoid this relationship to happen in the first place when i thought it was not realistic,and he said he didnt care about the age.In this last month, he has changed 3 gf from 16-18yrs old. He bought me a ring before and i returned to him on one of the broke-ups, and last week,i asked for it back, he insisted to give me in person, while i told him to leave it im my room when im not home,he gave me in person 2 days ago.He still has my keys now, i gave him just in case anything happpens while i travel to work, (i travel a lot).im asking for the keys back now and he didnt seem to be proactive to return it,he doesnt return and doesnt talk about it.when i asked, he said yes i will,today, tomorrow, but still not.i dont know waht he is thinking and im trying very hard to move on, but it seems so not easy. especially when i see him from time to time checking on my profile on some dating website.He even offered to take me to the staion last week when i was leaving for work, which he did most of the time before.We have almost no contact now and Im confused by his above action and i cant helping hoping he still cares? i would be a fool to believe that but i do want to belive that.PLS HELP, THANKS A LOT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Your no fool and he probably does care just is confussed and he still seems to want to be part of your life in some way so that says yes he cares, Im 45 my fiance is 23 we have been together 2yrs this week, I didnt for one minute think I was going to fall inlove and I certainly didnt think he would but he was the first one to tell me..I was the one with the issues but at that time things in my life had not been happy. As time has gone on its only got stronger. So I could be seen as a fool but a happy one, hunny give this a little time see what happens give him a little space and give him time to miss the lovely you and hopefully he will contact you very soon..YOUR NO FOOL SWEETHEART AGE IS A NUMBER IF YOU NEED A CHAT MESSAGE ME WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, daisydaresyou  +, writes (2 March 2008):
It sounds like he is trying to move on, by breaking contact, but is finding it very difficult to move on. I would guess because he still cares, even though he knows the relationship won't work.I think this is quite understandable, because it is the situation that is causing the breakdown, rather than a major loss of feelings between you two. What do you want from this? Do you accept that a 20 year old who lives at home can't give you what you need? I know you have feelings for him but is it wishful thinking to hope that it will somehow turn into a working relationship?Maybe to stop the agony you have to tell him you need him to be one way or another - either in your life as a boyfriend, or out of you life completely. This half-way house situation will only make you feel worse I think.Good luck.
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