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writes: he broke up with me and still loves me?he broke up with me a week ago coz we have big age gap (13)and culture difference(different nationality). he is in college and im working. He said he still loves me and will love me even in 20 years of time, he had to break up coz he doesnt see our future together. now he began to call me often, said he miss me and wants to meet. i dont think he wants the relationship back, but what does he want?
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Honestly I think he's looking for eventual one night stands or something like that, a selfish man who wants u for fun and friendship but doesn't want a relationship, he's so mean and so typical I would make an easy way out and refuse his gping out proposals arguind it's too soon to be friends and just not answering his calls or texts again unless u feel strong enough just to use him for stands or whatever comes up though look like a sensible and sensitive person so that my 1st idea fits u more
Love and strenth, u'll get out of it
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for the reply..it does give me more strengh.
I called him today and he wanted to meet, i did too, but after the phone, he called back and said better not to meet, he would feel very emotional beside me and temporarily good, afterwards he will feel more sad coz we are not together anymore.he still said he miss me and in dilemma to meet or not, but he chose not to, i also think its a good action to take...i will wait and if he is mine, he will come back i hope.
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (14 September 2007):
 I would let him know, meeting up can't happen because you're unsure of his intentions, and apparently with his ending it with you, he is too. Let hims know, you respect yourself, and you're not going to be his little call girl whenever he feels lonely and needs attention.
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reader, rhythmandblues2 + ♥, writes (14 September 2007):
 Don't assume anything, if you meet with him try to listen to him without judgement and with empathy, get emotionally close again and see where he wants it to go, that is if you still want him....He may have taken a break to sort out his head around where the two of you are concerned or about his own life....sometimes a couple has to break up to make up...it does not always mean it is the end....or at least that has been my experience.
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