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anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid,I have been with my BF for 9 years now and I recently hinted that I am now over my cold feet and am ready to get engaged. I just wondered why is it that sex has changed between us since I put that thought in his head?? He is now way more confident and before he suffered from premature ejactulation. Often times he would go off before he even entered me he was very embarrassed by this. All of a sudden that seems to have disappeared. I find this very strange!?! Why is this? Did my hint of my engagement readiness change the way he relates to me sexually?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): Wow, Lucky You!!! Just enjoy the whole thing. You have made him feel special and wanted and i bet you feel a lot better too. Enjoy the future.
Take care
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (11 January 2007):
 You have comitted to him and the chances are this has given him tonnes more confidence. if I where you I would be enjoying every minute!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): I would say that you accepting his proposal has made him realise how much you really love him. Maybe he was worried that you may not want to stay with him because of his Premature ejaculation problem, and you agreeing to marry him has given him the confidence boost he needed to overcome the problem. I dont really understand why you feel a need to post this question if the change has been a positive one. So in short your gut feelings were probably right.
Ok well Have fun with your new Fiance and good luck for the future.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (11 January 2007):
 i think emotionally it made a huge difference, he became more comfortable around you, maybe he wasnt sure of the way you felt about him and that caused his predicament which i think it was just insecurity playing tricks on him. so now that u committed yourself to him he realised how much u love him and those are the results. remember sex pleasure start from the mind which controls the emotions. enjoy
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reader, Dagwood +, writes (11 January 2007):
 Hi Anon,
So what's the problem? Don'tyou prefer the sex this way! It's probably that he now really feels that you've commited to him and he can really relax and be intimate! You should be pleased, just enjoy don't ask why?
Cheers Dagwood
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