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He asked me do I want to lose my virginity to him... but I'm not sure what to do!

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Question - (31 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey, I really need some help, my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to lose my virginity to him and I said I'm not sure. The reason I said this is because I ready but I don't know what to do with myself down below and what to do during... Please help me quick

thank you.x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009):

Someday you might still think it was the wrong time looking back even if you were sure right now. So if you're not sure right now, then don't even consider it.

Any BF that you lose for not having sex with him was a BF that you never really had in the first place. If he's not just using you, he'll wait as long as you want to wait. Like years.

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A female reader, minnie_me  +, writes (31 March 2009):

you should only have sex if your old enough to start of with. your boyfrend knows your a virgin and should respect that you wont be as good as other girls and you mite not no what to do for the first time.

you should only have sex if you are sure your ready for it if your not ready then just wait for a bit cuz you want the first time to be special. Good luck with everything!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (31 March 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntNope not going to help you quick. You are definitely not ready.

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A female reader, confused_0110 United States +, writes (31 March 2009):

first of all how old are you? and then if you are not sure then you really don't need to do it !

and if you are worried about not knowing what to do then well he knows you are a virgin and he knows that you don't have experience it will come to you naturally when you and if you do it! but if you are not sure then please don't do it

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