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Having sex again after 12 days really hurt! Why?

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Question - (30 November 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend hadn't had sex for 12 days- couldn't get a house to ourselves.

We finally managed today, and it hurt like a *****.

It was the same sort of pain I felt when I lost my virginity. It felt like I was being torn down there and brought tears to my eyes.

Anyone else has this happen to them? It really hurt and I'm kinda worried about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011):

I wouldn't worry to much about it if it happens again see a doctor it may have been down to a few reasons like hormonal changes or maybe you were to dry as that can cause a lot of pain

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (30 November 2011):

chigirl agony auntMy bet is that you weren't lubricated enough. Too much friction, or you were too eager and went at it too fast, again causing too much friction. Friction is alpha and omega in these cases, too much will make you hurt, no matter how many times you've had sex in your life, no matter how long since last time etc.

However in time, if you don't have sex, you can "shrink" in a little, but that takes longer than 12 days. When I was in a long distance relationship and went 4 months without sex we always had to start veeeery slow, otherwise it'd hurt, even if I was wet.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (30 November 2011):

person12345 agony auntSounds like you weren't turned on enough, either not wet enough or too tight. This is more likely to happen when you're apart because you're probably a bit more impatient about getting down to it. You can prevent this by having more foreplay (the average woman takes a full 20 minutes to "warm up" completely) and by buying some lube. Lube is probably the single best thing to have for sex after contraception.

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