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anonymous
writes:My relationship with my mom has never been so good. Shes's got a really short temper, she would flip out out of nowhere and react angry even to such little things. When she gets like that, I've always tried to ignore her, and i always stayed quiet cuz i didnt wanna make things worst. But, yesterday, i just exploded cuz she started saying that im a bad sister, i prefer my friends to my family and so many nonsesne stuff, juss b/c i took a friend home. I baby sit my brothers after school every single day cuz, according to her she cant find a job in the morning so she's got this part-time in the afternoon. So i told her that if i didnt know how to take care of them, then she should stay home since their HER kids not mine. I probably shouldnt but i couldnt help it. Things got worst when she told me that i only look like a good girl but i ainT; so i told her to not even say nothing cuz i know the things she does .( i said that cuz a while ago i found out she's cheating on my step-day,... yeah i'm sure., but i never said nothing cuz it's her life nd who am i to judge her)...So when i said that she tried to slap me, i defended myself so she didnt, then she juss said im crazy and left to work. NOw she's really pissed off at me, honestly i dont think i disrepected that bad as she says. I'm not talking to her and dont know if i should or what to tell her. Sometimes i feel like i hate her cuz she only sees negative stuff on me and yells it out.. but why she dont make a big deal when i get straigh A's, when i get honors, or even when i juss help arond the house, or recognize the fact that im not one of those crazy teens who go partyin and drinking all da time. I really dont know what she expects from me, but nothing i do is good enough for her, i also think she hates me but i dindt ask for her to get pregnant at 18, so it's not my fault she had to go trough so much for me. I juss wish she'd realize she's got anger issues and get some proffessional help cuz honestly i dont think she's normal. It kinda sucks cuz tomorrow is mother's day and it's not gonna b so kool but let's see what happens. I know she's my mom, but how can someone be so inconsiderate. Reply to this Question
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