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writes:help. my cousin is addopted and he is about 5years younger than me, but i really dont get along with him, hes 7 at the moment and he has serious issues.it seems as though he has everyone wrapped around his little finger and when im around, it doesnt seem like i matter to them anymore.nobody sees him like i do becausehen its just me and him, he becomes pure evil, and i mean evil.i dont think hell ever snap out of it, and one day, its going to get out of control. also, if i go in a strop or make ir obvious that i dont like him, then i get told off,and he gets special treatment, ad when i look into his eyes, al i see is anger and evil. i dont know who to talk to about this, because nobody knows what hes like, he broke my knee before, and blmaed it on me falling on the trampoline, and i was in so much pain and he told me if i ever told anyone that id regret it...
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (8 June 2008):
 i think you should stay out of his way and see if he grows out of it and if he doesnt every one will see what hes like soon i cant belive your family dont belive you jsut saty safe becasue he could really hurt you i hope you are ok
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 Sounds like a rotten seed. I have a cousin like that. The best thing to do is avoid him as much as possible. Try to avoid family functions that he will attend. If your parents ask, just tell them he is mean to you, and thats it. Fact is, he is rotten and will always be that way, and eventually, he will get himself into some serious trouble that he cant use the "but I'm adopted" card on. Let everyone see him for who he really is. In the meantime, ignore him, avoid him and let him dig himself a hole, because he will, trust me.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (7 June 2008):
 how often do you have to see him? you would do best just to try and avoid him, eventualy he will get older and no one will think hes cute and innocent and they will see his true side. i understand that dousnt help you in the short term so for now alls i can say is avoid him and watch your back becuase if hes as bad as you say he will try to pull something. i hope i helped.
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