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writes:Hi Guys, how can i stop thinking of being with the man i want but without cutting all ties? We have had a few "encounters" (kisses) together but although things have got close we have never had sex. We both know we shouldn't as i am married to his friend but not to see him anymore would make it obvious to my husband that i fancy his friend as we have a good social life as a group.I would rather keep him as a friend than lose all contact with him but if i cant get these feelings in check then what option do i have?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): If you are that attracted to him it will be hard to pull back, but, beware, it's easy to fancy someone else and get caught up in a bit of harmless kissing. The trouble is your hubby wouldn't see it as harmless would he? Hurt by his wife and his mate. You could ruin everything for all of you.
You are probably just a bit bored with home life and see the mate as exciting. BUT, it won't be excitng when your husband finds out and the rows start and the 'mate' decides it's all too much trouble. He's actually not a very good mate is he? and you are in danger of becoming not a very good wife either!
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