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36-40,
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writes:I dated this lovely man for a three months and we broke up in June. I was quite devastated as he was the one who pursued me and told me he was in love with me. I really adore him as a person but at the time he was very stressed out with his new business and responsibilities, so he broke it off. Two weeks ago was his birthday and I sent him a short text and didn't hear back for a few days, so I thought, okay that's that. But then he did write back, he said he was in Cuba for a destination wedding and the internet was nonexistent there, asked how everything was going and said have a great weekend. Xx I guess I put too much stock in the "xx" ... I responded very basically, saying he goes to a lot of destination weddings, something menial about some store opening by me and how I live there now and hope he has a good weekend as well :) I haven't had a response back. I really like him as a person and I just really like him. I don't know how to approach this, I suppose I could let it go like a normal person who ends a relationship but we both stated we felt very connected to each other. I assumed if he wanted to pursue things back, he would, as he is extremely assertive. I've posted before this is my lawyer with ADD lol. I just want to see how he is... I didn't ask because I was afraid. What should I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2014): I too would let it go.
It didn't work for a reason.
And he has your contact details should he wish to rekindle things.
Sending a birthday message was more than enough.
Don't contact him again
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (29 October 2014):
 I advise you to do nothing. The ball is in his court. If he is as assertive as you say then he most likely would still be in your life if he wanted to be. I wouldn't waste anymore precious time on the guy.
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