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writes:Hi, I was just wondering if any of you out there have, 'squirted' during sex, or made anyone squirt? ive never had an orgasam, with anyone ive ever been with. I do enjoy sex and do have a good sexlife with my boyfriend, but ive dont know anyone who ever has. Also anyone else out there who didnt have an orgasam for a while after being sexually active and then did? any tips? Thanks to anyone who has replied xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2012): in response, i do have a good sexlife, in that i enjoy sex when we have sex, and my boyfriend can make me ogasam in foreplay, but not through penetration xx
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (19 June 2012):
 I had one girlfriend that squirted. it is comparatively rare and not linked to as much pleasure as you may think. many women don't have orgasms until their men learn how to pleasure them. this is difficult as the woman has to learn first. sometimes it takes years as people are shy about these matters. I know when my girlfriend squirted I was shocked and horrified as I didn't know what was going on. concentrate on training your boyfriend to give you pleasure by slowing down, massaging and kissing everywhere. then when its nearly going to happen hold off slow down and tease. it will get good.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (19 June 2012):
 I've done it three or four times, always with a sex toy that stimulates my g-spot (twice alone, twice my boyfriend using it on me). All times were unexpected and annoying and kind of exciting at the same time (because it's rare). It did feel like I'd peed myself though. The orgasm part felt the same. It's never happened during sex. I can orgasm from penetration, but the majority of women (75%) cannot. It also took me two years of having regular ones with my partner to get there. So you shouldn't count on that to give you one.
Orgasms and "squirting" are two very different things. One feels amazing and one is like a circus trick.
I find it a little odd that you say you've never had an orgasm but have a good sex life with your boyfriend. Good sex life isn't based on how often you have sex you know... If you don't already you should really masturbate. The vast vast vast majority of women have their first orgasm alone. You can't expect your partner to know how to please you if you can't do it yourself. You can also get yourself a sex toy and have your partner use it on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2012): You are naming two different things. Most women, like 99.9 percent don't squirt. But they do have orgasms. Squirting as u say it, very rare, its actually an unusual female reaction to orgasm, as it doesn't play any role in reproduction. What we have is some liquid coming out, but in a very small amount.
I know that men don't like squirting despite the fact when they orgasm, we all know what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2012): I'm 27, a virgin, and most of the times I masturbate I squirt. A lot. I wish I could make it stop. It is really inconvenient having to clean up the mess afterwords.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (18 June 2012):
 Squirting is like anal sex, a "new" fad for people to do because it's been faked/done so many times in porn.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 June 2012):
 I am 52. I did once last year.
I have orgasms nearly every day but I only squirted once and guess what.. it was not as satisfying as folks seem to think... in fact, I don't even consider it was an orgasm...
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 June 2012):
 A boyfriend I once had claimed he made me squirt, in front of his friend. Just to show off. But nah, he's never made me squirt. No one has. I'm not a squirter. Not all women are. Some do it, some don't.
Squirting and having an orgasm aren't connected though, mind you. They are two different things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2012): I have never squirted despite having many orgasms. And most orgasms I've had, I've achieved on my own. We're all different.
I'll be interested to read other answers about squirting because I also don't know anyone else who squirts - not that I've directly asked my friends. It's nothing that a partner has ever brought up, in the way that they usually ask whether or not you've come.
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