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Have you ever lied to someone about your feelings for them?

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Question - (7 July 2017) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2017)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Dear cupid, I'd like to know if anyone has ever lied to a friend of the opposite sex about whether or not you have feelings for them? If so, what was the reason? Did you feel you had to lie because of circumstance?

I have a male friend, we talk everyday and have a lot of fun together. While we were out yesterday, we got talking about relationships and it came up about how unhappy I am in mine. His demeanour turned all serious, and he started to hug me a lot more. When I was leaving, he pulled me close and kissed me on the forehead. What does this mean?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (17 July 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntSounds like he was being a good friend, if you have feelings then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2017):

He was probably trying to be a good friend and comfort you. If you are questioning someone else's feelings maybe you should not be in a relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2017):

Only that he was consoling you. Hey, you're still in a relationship!!! It was just a kiss on the forehead. Like you'd kiss your mum or baby sister.

Anything you'd even consider starting with him would be on the rebound, totally impulsive, and cheating.

So what are you up to?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (7 July 2017):

Honeypie agony auntHe was trying to make you feel better.

If he has deeper feelings for you, NOW is not the time to DO anything about it. YOU have a partner.

So IF you are miserable with your partner and it's nothing something that can be worked on, maybe you need to figure out what your next step is, instead of worrying about this friend's motives. Look at your own.

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