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writes:I am 33 years old and moved 2 hours away from my home town to where my husband lives when we got married. We both have our own businesses and work hard. My husband works long hours, and also plays a lot of football so I tend to be on my own quite a lot even at weekends. We live in a little village, I have a dog so I take him for a lot of walks and thats basically it, my social life. There are a lot of older people in the village, they all say hello but thats about it.. i bet they think there she goes again the lonely girl with the dog! I talk and text my old freinds a lot and on occasions we go out with my husbands freinds and their wives who are all nice to busy with their own lives/families. I am so lonely! When my husband and i are together we get on brilliantly, but he is always working or playing football and i dont feel like i have anything, i just wait for him to come home and then when he does hes tired? Have you any advice for things i could do to improve my life?
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reader, Kimaxsi  +, writes (8 May 2008):
Taking dance or exercise classes is a great way to meet people, joining a gym, starting or joining some type of recreational sport's team, obviously taking on a hobby maybe something you've always wanted to do but never made time for?, join a book club, become involved in your local theater, volunteer, he mentioned and its great continuing education courses they can be academic or hobby based, getting a pen pal, can you go to your husband's games cheer him on sometimes?, generally the paper is a good place to find out about Community Group scour it for something good, if nothing exists who says you can't create one?
I feel you I am a stay at home mom right now, living in a new area where I don't know anyone, so I am going pretty stir-crazy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): writing, painting, gardening, dancing, salsa, further education, piano, guitar, swimming, wine making, meditation, amature dramatics, violin, dressmaking, sculpture, photography, pottery, kite flying, stamp collecting, voluntery work,metal detecting, knitting, embroidery, football, hockey, long distant running, hiking, etcOn the other hand you could do what most other folks with little imagination do, have an affair.
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