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writes:im 19 im goin out wit a 21yr old guy but i was really drunk last nite and i texted my ex boyfrend(my ex boyfrend is my boss,35yr old, married ,2 kids and he almost got me pregnant and he suggested an abortion) so we wer chattin away about work(we all work 2gedder) and we wer gettin on very well like we wer best frends(i avnt spoken to him in 2months) and i told him ''i miss u and want u back its killin me'' but he sed ''it was only ment to be horny fun but it got out of hand, sure ur with ur new boyfrend now you'll be grand'' so wats dat suppossed to mean???does he not want me anymore?? i texted him this morning saying ''forget evrything i sed last nite it was the drink talking i didnt mean to text you at all, delete my number'' so i made da decision 2 NOT cheat on my boyfrend. Is it the rite choice?
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reader, TasteofIndia  + ♥, writes (25 February 2007):
 Is it the right choice to not cheat? Well, that's pretty much always the right choice. Your ex-boyfriend sounds like the WRONG choice all over. 35, married, two kids, not to mention your BOSS... and his little text makes it all the more clear that he's a jerk who never actually cared about you.
Concentrate on your boyfriend, who hopefully has less drama involved with him and in theory, genuinely cares about you. Your ex-boyfriend is SCUM! Forget about him and have fun being 19!
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2007): Your ex doesn't want you, as he admitted it was just a bit of fun to him. Seeing as it looks like you would have been very tempted to cheat on your current boyfriend if your ex had feelings for you i would say dump your boyfriend and keep out of the way of your ex.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (25 February 2007):
 You've definitely made the right choice! =) It's never cool to cheat on your boyfriend. Especially if the person that you in a brief drunk moment considered cheating with was a married man.
Judging from his text-message, your ex-lover must also have realized that it's better that you're with your boyfriend. And probably he has a big interest in staying with his wife.
Don't break your head over if he wants you or not, he's not worth it.
Take care and be happy,
/dragonette
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (25 February 2007):
 I would say that you made the right choice, your boyfriend is more in your age bracket with no emotional ties either.
If you kept on seeing this older guy i can only see an unhappy ending, as relationships with married guys invariably bring. He would never have left his wife, and you would have remained his bit on the side, or mistress only seeing you when he can sneak away.
Stay with your boyfriend, and leave this older guy to his wife.
All the best of luck x
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