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Have a guy and a baby but want to have 'fun' with another fellow. Any advice?

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Question - (4 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *xdani18xx writes:

im in love with my bf we been 2getha 3years and av a baby i meet someone and i like him i dont wanna relationship with him just fun am i wrong my bf has cheated on me 3 times

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntYou're not the most important person in your life anymore. Your baby is. You need to do what's right for it not for yourself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007):

Lets get this straight:

You love your bf but you want to have sex with another man?

So your bf has cheated on you in the past that makes it ok to cheat on him now? If you love your bf and want your child to grow up in a stable family youd think about what your saying. Work on your relationship, make it stronger, more loving. Talk to each other, have nights out where its just you two spending quality time with no distractions.

You want someone to condone starting an affair...only sick individuals will do that hun.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntI don't have a clue why you and your boyfriend are still together? Surely it's not because of the baby? You can't love your boyfriend if you want to go out and "have fun" with someone else. YOU are a mother now and you have to take your responsibilities as a mother seriously! Who's going to watch your child while you go out with this other man and "have fun?" Your boyfriend????

I suggest you grow up and get your priorities right. If you don't want to be with your boyfriend then seperate from him and bring your child up first and foremost before going out and having "fun" with any other man. If you're not careful you might end up having a brother or sister for your child sooner than you thought. I know this is not what you want to hear love but I'm telling you straight here... Get your priorities in order!

Eve

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