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yemisdate
writes:I've been masturbating with an electric toothbrush since I was about 13. I had a relationship with a girl (I am bisexual) last year and when she was stimulating me I found she needed to finger me very strongly for a long time before I felt proper pleasure, which she found difficult. Has my clitoris become desensitized from using the electric toothbrush? What can I do to make myself more sensitive? Was it just because I wasn't turned on? I can use my fingers to make myself orgasm when I'm on my own but not often.
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reader, yemisdate +, writes (8 June 2008):
yemisdate is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you :) That's very helpful :)
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reader, birdynumnums  + ♥, writes (4 June 2008):
 I think that lotus mama808 has given you excellent advice. I suspect that you have just gotten used to the feeling of having an orgasm that way now. I think that you should put away the toothbrush for a while and experiment with other methods so that you get used to cuming from sensations other than the one that you are used to. I don't think that it's possible for the clitoris to become desensitised, but I think you probably have a learned behavior/memory thing, and you need to relearn how to cum without the toothbrush. Try stimulating your G spot inside your vagina as well as rubbing your clitoris, that can help trigger an orgasm. Have fun practicing! ;-)
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 I have always had a difficult time reaching an orgasm through masterbation, TRIED EVERYTHING! I need that skin on skin contact to put my mind in the right place. As far as I know, you shouldnt be desencitized by electronic stimulation. The nerves that are there dont go away, you know? Sometimes, you just need to stimulate the clitoris in a different way, pinch gently and rub back and forth a few times to get it erect, (which the clitoris can do!) I am bi sexual too, and find that I always climax when I am with another female, not always with a male, I assume it's because only a female is familiar with where to go and when to go there since we share the same parts. She may not even need to penetrate me with any devices. Do an experiment: discontinue using the electronic devices and see if you become more sensitive. Let me know how that works out. Good luck, I hope you find your sensitivity again;)
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