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Has my body maybe been conditioned to only orgasm with visual aids?

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Question - (3 October 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I could really use advice please.

So I'm a 16 year old girl, still a virgin and have been masturbating since I was younger.

It's a little bit of a blur when I first discovered how to please myself but I'm sure I was watching something at the time. Like a hot sex scene or movie, and then I just sort of started. Since that first time, I've always masturbated whilst watching a hot sex scene or reading some erotic fiction.

Then when I was 15 I started occasionally watching porn when I didn't feel like reading. I can always orgasm this way.

Problem is, I've never ever had an orgasm without these things and that's bad. I can't even get wet without them. Is there something wrong with me? Has my body maybe been conditioned to only orgasm with visual aids? I'm scared that when I finally lose my virginity, or "play around" with a guy he won't be able to make me orgasm.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 October 2015):

olderthandirt agony auntNope, porn is a great stimulant but far from an end all be all.You'll be fine without it. The most stimulation anyone can get is between the ears.

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