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writes:Help! am confusd!my boyfriend of 5yrs used to talk to me like daily. He would call me sometimes 4 times a day and sms between 20 to 25 messages a day. We would spend hours together enjoying company-no sex. After we started having sex, it was great for a year. Now, suddenly he ignores me,sms me like 4 messages a week saying he is busy, it takes him a week or more to read my email then deletes them without replying. longest time together is 20 minutes with me asking him not to go as from 5 minutes after sex. He comes and makes it clear its for sex. He hardly calls. Problem is i love him and cant believe he has been playing me all this time. Is this because i allowed sex into relationship? I have tried to talk about it but he wont listen,says he is busy. Keeps saying he loves me and is just busy. How can i win him back? confused and hurt. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): Wow, this sounds a lot like my situation. Here's my question if you are ever curious: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/long-distance-boyfriend-ignoring-me.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): Leaving and/or letting go of someone that you truly love and care about is one of the most hardess things in the world to do. From your article, it seems as though your bf has taken you for granted--he doesn't appreciate you. I think you should take a step back and act un-interested in him, stop being so available to him, stop answering his every call and whim. Let him be the man and come after you and by all means STOP HAVING SEX WITH HIM. I think it will also be benefical to you to start reading relationship books and websites. There is this book called "Why Men Love Bitches." You can purchase it on Amazon.com---BUY IT, READ IT AND TAKE THE ADVICE FROM IT. You have to teach people how to treat you, if you don't they will run all over you.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 March 2010):
 You can't flogged a dead horse. It is better to take stock of your situation and move on.
If a person is very busy for you ,it means that they are no more interested in you .
They are going in the opposite directions from you and soon it will be too wide to cross it.
He has taken everything you have and there is nothing more to give him.
If you chase after him , you would appear to be very clingy and it will further make him run away from you .
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