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writes: i got together with my boyfriend after we had a casual relationship. when he told me he loved me and wanted a proper relationship. I didnt trust him at first because he used to be a bit of a tart, but he never gave me a reason not to trust him. now we've been together for a year and we dont text or see each other as much as we used to. he hardly says he loves me any more and isnt as affectionate as he once was. he's even changed the screensaver on his phone to a picture of his friend, when it used to be one of me. ive started checking his phone again after a few months of trusting him completely. I dont know what to think now. although he has female friends, i dont think he's cheating on me as our sex life is still great, or am i being stupid. is this normal, is he cheating on me or has he fallen out of love with me?please help because i dont want to end it after we took so long to get together.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (23 January 2005):
 I think the most important thing that you need to do is talk to your boy-friend. Explain to him that you feel as if he has somehow gone off you because of the way he has been acting. Tell him that you believe you can still trust him and that as you love him, you very much want your relationship to work and could he explain to you if he has anything at all on his mind.Try to think of ways of adding spice to your relationship such as surprising him with gifts and maybe love notes. You may find, however, that once he is able to tell you what he feels that things hopefully will settle down.
A reader, louise, writes (23 January 2005): from the sounds of this relationship, you need to spice it up abit, make him more interested. it sounds like you're slowly drifting apart. so get him back don't let him drift away, organise different things of what he likes, you know like the pictures do things what he likes, even tho it may drive you mad he'll return the favour in the end you'll see. gud luck
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