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writes:I am so lost. My boyfriend that I have lived with for the past 4 years is cheating on me, puts me down constantly and always calls me names and tells me he hopes i have a terrible life. I want to break up with him soo bad but I live with him and I lost my job recently. I only have about $500 left and no where to go...I havent been paying rent to live with him as he's much older and owns a house. :( He is so cruel to me but I feel so trapped. What can I do? Has anyone been in a similar situation?
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reader, lynn1977 +, writes (23 July 2010):
I have been in a worse situation. I know exactly how you feel and the pain you are going through. I wanted to leave my ex but I was not financially able and had the lowest self-esteem because of the verbal and physical abuse he put me through. I did not leave him, he left me for another woman and even took my truck. I wish I would have left him sooner and had the $500 with me instead of having to lose everything. Please get away from him. He does not love you and you deserve better. You can do it! I promise you! Take it one day at a time and pray. You are worth better than this man. Believe that.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 July 2010):
I'm sure there are plenty of people who have been in your situation. There are plenty of this site alone.
You do need to get away. Take your $500 and go to a women's hostel, or even a cheap motel. Move in with a friend, or even go back to family if you can. Just get away from this man.
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reader, shellygurl69  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 yep Leave the guy and get a job and move back 2 ur family....
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (23 July 2010):
 Wow...honey you need to get out now. I know you are having trouble and right now depend on him. So you need to either go back to family. Or wait. Get another job as soon as possible and move in with a friend.
Leave asap!
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