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I have a hard time having orgasm during intercourse... Am I normal?

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Question - (31 January 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I have been with my husband for about 6 years. I have a hard time having orgasms when we have sex. I have to masturbate the same time we are having sex in order to have an orgasm. Is this normal?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005):

your need for a greater level of clitoral stimulation is what is at issues. Change the method of having sex or enjoy the stimulation you can give to yourself. Its normal.

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A reader, Beck, writes (8 February 2005):

I had the same problem with my partner. If you go to an adult shop there is a virating toy which goes around the man's penis. A part of this toy vibrates on the clitoris. I use what I call "the rabbit". The bunny ears vibrate on my clitoris while I am on top of him. It is a wonderful feeling and would be the best orgasm you have ever had. There are other things besides the rabbit you can use. Also try an orgasm cream. They help to push the orgasm alot quicker. Get advice from someone at an adult shop to what would suit you and your partner. Go in together and pick something exciting. Trust me this really works.

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A reader, alex, writes (3 February 2005):

I take it we are talking about penetration orgasms? Then yes your normal. A high percentage of woman never achieve orgasm through penetration.

Sometimes it can help achieve this if your husband gives you a clitoral orgasm first by stimulating you with his hands or mouth or toys.(No i dont mean his train set!)If it doesnt then what the heck youve come any way!Position can also help. If you get on top of your hubby you can also rub your clitoris against his pubic bone in a rocking motion at the same time as penetration.Like i say dont get hung up on this its normal for a lot of woman.

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