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anonymous
writes:i broke up with my bf now because i caught him chatting with a girl and this is the 3rd time.. well our relationship in the past few years is shaky but we're trying to deal with it and he doesn't trust me at all but that's fine with me as long as i know what i'm doing, i'm so confused on what to do whether to let go or stay with him.. we've been 4 yrs nah.. i trust him so much, i gave everything to him.. when i broke up with him, he cried and then beg that he can't live without me and he said "pls stay".. what will i do now? i change my number so that he will never contact me but deep inside of my heart i still want him but the other half tells me to stop.. :((
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reader, sweetiebabes +, writes (1 August 2011):
 Hello.
How can you be happy in a relationship without trust? Your bf doesn't trust you and you are still with him.
Why do you put up yourself into this kind of relationship where there is NO TRUST and definitely NO TRUST NO LOVE.
Yet, you give every thing to him just because you love him. Love is a 2 way, it is reciprocated. I don't want to make judgement but I don't think you BF really loves you and he is taking advantage of your weakness, your vulnerabilities.
Know what you want in a relationship and don't bend backwards so you will not end up as doormat.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 August 2011):
 You broke up with him because he chatting with some girl??? Doesn't sound like you trust him one iota. No offense but you sound like a VERY young 18.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (1 August 2011):
 If he's done this to you 3 times then why stay with him? He's not going to change or respect you and you won't stop getting hurt by him, so leave him. He's not worth your time and there are better men out there for you.
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reader, Brokenhearted19 +, writes (1 August 2011):
 Without Trust and Communication that is a downfall in a relationship. Honestly sweetie if its not meant to be its not meant to be and maybe its time you move on instead of wanting him then not wanting him.
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