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Had a great crush on the girl I work with... until I found out she has a boyfriend! How do I get her out of my head?

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Question - (3 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *e_uk writes:

I am in a miserable situation. I am 25 working as admin in an airline. I have a great crush on a girl at workplace. I didn’t notice her before but from last three weeks or so i noticed that she has got some feelings for me. So i took a step forward and i asked her name, where she lives etc...

she was being very nice and polite and that encouraged me a lot. I met her yesterday at work and after normal conversation i asked her mobile number and if she can spare some time for me to go out somewhere and i was so terribly disappointed when she refused very politely with a smile, afterwards i found out that she has got boy friend.I have tried a lot but I just can’t get her out of my head....any suggestions plz...

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (4 February 2007):

kenny agony auntI know what its like to crush on someone, you can't stop thinking about them, and the buttterflies racing around in you stomach. At least this girl was straight with you and diden't string you along like some would. Keep her as a close friend, and who knows in the future they may break up, and you can be there for her.

Good luck

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntIt's hard but you know deep down that this girl did the right thing in telling you she had a boyfriend. On some level if she hadn't told you you probably wouldn't like her as much. She's made it clear now though. She's in a relationship and therefore nothing can happen between you. It will hurt for a while but you'll bounce back as we all do from ou crushes in a few months so just sit tight til then.

CD

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