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Guys: How long do you last during sex?

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Question - (15 January 2006) 13 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2006)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Question for the guys:

How long do *you* usually last, during intercourse?

Reply honestly, anon if you like!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2006):

About 30 minutes the first time, and an hour the second.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006):

a minute , 5 minutes , 10 minutes an hour its differant every time and my partner last as long as i want him too hehe!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006):

I can control my orgasms, meaning on my way to one. If I wanted to blow, I can orgasm in 2 or 3 minutes. If I want to give her tantric orgasms, I can last over an hour non stop. [sigh] My back! My thighs too! So sore afterward... And my biceps for moving her back and forth when she rides me. Mind you, it only takes my gf about 3 minutes for her first orgasm.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Mr. Ed, quite the operator! Keep the responses "coming" guys.

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A male reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (17 January 2006):

Mr.Ed agony auntDare I answer this question; OK. I definately agree with the majority of the answers of it goes as long as it goes. I personally average I'd say, 30 minutes or more. However, this is a definate state of mind and requires concentration to the fullest. I focus my attention on her needs, not mine. I want her to have at least 3 orgasms before I get mine. Like I said though it's total mindset. Sometimes if I'm in the mood it last 5 minutes; if she wants to hurry. Sometimes I want the feeling to last along time so; an hour or longer. We find that if were both frisky we once made it together in two minutes. Notice I said once. Sometimes I'm not in the mood but I want to satisfy her so 10-20. Then I have my once a month thing were I play a game and ask her to pick a number between 5 and 20. The first time she said 14 and I made sure she had 14 orgasms, before I got mine. She got smart the second time and said 6; so I told her that 20 minus 6 is 14 and away we went. The third time she said I'm not playing just give me 5. So I held out her hand and slapped her 5 then we made love not sex. It doesn't matter as long as my getting off is because I see her getting off. That's the biggest turn-on of all.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006):

As long as I want because I don't cum during sex

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006):

Hey, I'd try not to worry about it love, people are individual and last different times. During intercourse, my boyfriend would last about 1-2 minutes the first time, but if he would stop his self from "cumming", he would last around 10-15 minutes. It also helps to have lots of foreplay before sex. Me and my boyfriend have around 10 mins of foreplay and it gets you turned on more! (including oral)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006):

How about an hour or two. My Jamaican boyfriend just does that. To be honest he has never lasted UNDER 30 minutes and that is when we are rushing. Sometimes I think that he is never going to stop. I LOVE IT!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2006):

I read an article that states a man lasts on average 7 mins 37 seconds according to statistics.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2006):

I find i normally last about 1-2 minutes the first time i have it with my gf that day. A little thing i do is strait after i "cum" i stay hard so i put on another condom! Then i can last for anything from 10-30 mins.

Also try foreplay first such as oral so you cum then 1-2 after try intercourse.

Hope this helps!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2006):

erm, feel awkwardly embarrased, but about 12 mins on average. An longer and I'm totally knackered to be honest! lol

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A female reader, aunty butterfly +, writes (15 January 2006):

aunty butterfly agony aunthi,

To be quite honest with you,It lasts for as long as it lasts.

Sorry to disappoint Dawnest,but you might even find they can go around half an hour if done correctly(slowly sensual and not in a rush).It kind of depends weather your'e having sex or making love in the minds sense.

All i can say is that if your'e not getting the satisfaction you need,speak up and tell them what you want...good luck xAunty Bx

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A female reader, Dawnest +, writes (15 January 2006):

Some guys are like bunnies and its all over in 10 seconds, others can last 10 minutes. Anyone who says they can go on all night are fibbing because not only is the girl bored/dried up and sore but the urge to pretend to have an orgasm loses its thrill after the first time.

is someone making yoi feel inadequate because you only lasted 6 minutes?

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