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Guys don't take me seriously in that way hence why I'm single and I don't know why?!

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Question - (6 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've never had a proper boyfriend / never been in love before. It's driving me nuts that the only guys I meet ANYWHERE only see me as a passing fancy / or after one thing and then just leave me hanging.

Some guys I've really liked end up having girlfriends or I never see them again. (note that I haven't slept with anyone as I want it to be the right person)

The only guy I ever really liked used me as a way to spend his time / for a bit of affection before he met someone else, and I'd actually started to fall for him and still think about him every day, months on.

I know people say to be 'patient' but I've been patient my whole life, its like guys don't take me seriously in that way hence why I'm single and I don't know why?!

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A female reader, MissCupid United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2008):

MissCupid agony auntI'm having the same problem! I've had my first kiss which was a one off because I had been drinking but I've kissed my ex boyfriend but it only lasted about two weeks!

I know this sounds silly but you've got to try to be patient, I am but its so difficult! I understand what you are going through though, have you got a friend who has a boyfriend? AND does he have any friends that you like?

Sorry it wasn't that helpful =] xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

I know how you feel... I've had boyfriends but never had my first kiss before and things like that. I wanted it to be special.. so I never kissed them.... The longest realtionship I've had lasted about a week.... and it didnt turn out well... I have someone that I know I love but

we aren't together yet....

all I can say is to flirt more and ask more guys out

*~VG~*

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