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writes: I'm a single 28 year old. I've been dating this guy for about two months now. At first he was very attentive, called a lot, etc. Now we go out to eat about once a week, spend the night together once a week or so...but other than that he doesn't call. My roommate says I don't play hard to get and that is why this keeps happening. I'm not clingy...I don't call anymore now that he doesn't call back very often.Is it me?
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reader, Anja +, writes (12 May 2006):
 P.S: Don't be hard on yourself, if it is simply a case of him losing interest it isn't your fault. Your type of qualities and personality may not be what he's looking for. Youv'e done everything right...don't worry!! xx
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reader, Anja +, writes (12 May 2006):
You should'nt have to be play hard to get...why play games? So early on in the reltionship it's natural to want to spend a fair bit of time with the other person to get to know them etc. What is equally important of course is to still see you friends and family. Live your life the way you want. It does seem a bit strange that his attentiveness to the very young relationship has already worn off, this could suggest that he could have lost interest, maybe now as the thrill of the chase has worn off he is lacking enthusiasm. I hope for your sake this is not the case, as you sound serious about this guy. But if on the other hand he is no longer that interested...well better to know now then a year...two years down the line when you have invested more emotionally in the relationship over a period of a longer time...!
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reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (12 May 2006):
 well...try and play hard to get, like your friend suggests. if theres still no change, and u dont feel like he feels the same way towards u, move on. this will be tough, but its important your with someone who likes u as much as u like him. good luck, message me if u hav anymore questions x x
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