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Guy friend is coming on to me and it is making me uncomfortable

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Question - (29 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *ings_alot_chicky writes:

One of my best guy friends keeps telling me i look hot and I'm not very comfortable with it. I've known him since elementary school and he has never said anything like this before.....I'm not sure if he is just joking around or not because i got a bf and he has a gf.

what can i do?

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (29 March 2011):

dirtball agony auntTell him it bothers you and that you'd like him to stop.

It's possible he may have developed some feelings for you and that's what's causing this as well.

Be honest with him though. If he's such a good friend that shouldn't be hard.

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A female reader, LittleMissy United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2011):

Telling someone their hot isn't actually coming on to them.

I'm a straight female, have a boyfriend and am 22 years old. If I saw you and you were looking nice, I'd tell you. Am I coming on to you? Obviously not. Im just stating the truth, or maybe I see your not feeling very confident and want to boost you up abit.

He probably feels good giving others compliments especially his best friends and he maybe has a little crush on you but it doesn't automatically mean he wants to be your boyfriend/sleep with you etc. If someone gives you a compliment simply thank them and believe it!!

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