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female
age
30-35,
*k202009
writes:I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years I love him dearly and he does to, he doesn’t show me a lot of attention, most of the time its xbox, football or sex, we never just sit and chat or he never makes me feel special or loved or like he wants me etc. I decided the other day to go on a chat room not for a chat just a look as I was bored, as I logged on I got speaking to a male and he was really nice and caring and showed me attention although none of it was crude rude or horrible I told him I had a boyfriend although not revealing any personal information. he said my boyfriend should be lucky to have me that I'm really attractive and caring and kind etc etc, I was really flattered and found myself wanting to go on chat rooms more often, but I feel really bad for talking to this male and liking the attention I got, I don’t want to do it again as I'm doing it intentionally, but my boyfriend will never do this? we've had a tough year and always argue I don’t know what to do?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 July 2010):
This guy on chat is just telling you what you want to hear. Ironically, there is more honesty in your boyfriend's actions. However, it's clear that your relationship with him is in deep trouble, and I think you now need to make that very clear to him. You need to be honest and say that you're not happy and that you're worried about the future unless you can sort this out. He will either see there is a problem and work with you over this, or he won't and you'll need to think about whether you want to be with him or not.
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