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Give me some tips on new and exciting foreplay to please my boyfriend!

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Question - (13 July 2005) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2010)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hey, I am 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. I want to try some different ways of foreplay. I was wondering if anyone could give me some tips, also when giving a guy a hand job is there any different ways of doing it because my wrist starts to ache after a while. Thank you for your time and help. x

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A male reader, 2much4her United States +, writes (11 October 2010):

well me an my wife have been together for over three yrs an married for 1. but what we have done lately to arose one another befor sex is taken pictures. she would have her see thru sexy cloths on to start an i will take picz of her in sexy posses on the bed leaning on the wall whatever ur man wuld like our ask u to do. an me i would do the same for her, an yes i let her take picz of me in a thong lol. but it was fun but it dont stop there with the photos. well haveing sex if one of us likes a position our anything like that the digital camra is within reach soo theres no stoping the sex an u get the picz u want . this is good i think for the women who are not comfortable with there man watching our looking at porn. instead youve created your own. an just a tip say u take a pic of u two having sex show your man an visversa its a turn on to see whats goin on from a different point of view. after getting compfortabl with the pics u can move on to little short videos of u two giving eachother oral are doggy...but i would keep the videos to maybe 1-3 min long videos. me an my wife like to allways go thru what we got on camera an talk about that moment an why we wantd a pic of it an to also erase the pics that didnt get what we wanted cuz of all the movement lol but if u like this idea there is more that we do if u would like to further the fun

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A female reader, hannahcaldwel Ireland +, writes (24 April 2009):

i have just turned 21 on the same day as my boyfriend. we have been to gether a year an 7 months and i just cant help my self to every night we go to bed! turning him on gives me such a delightful feeling knowing my turn is next. he loves just starting of in a dark room standing up kissing an toching him all over then start to take of each others cloths, push him to the bed an lean over him with no body waight toching him at all if u have long hair dangle it the side tickleing his chest when your kissing him, rub your knew easly agenst his penis 'easly' just the once or twice! then slowly take ur hand an start to rub it an temp him. now its tim to suck!! start of with the tip of the penis and go slowly and when you start to get a bit faster remember he is starting to really enjoy it, drag ur fingers around his balls and rub nicely. by now he wants to just get up lift you an chuck u on the bed and simply ride you silly but this is for him so you push him back hard on the bed an get on top an ride to his senstion!! then before he coms make sure you get your fair share:) or if you want to wait to after an do it gain.. lie with your back to him but clos up so his belly an all are touching ur bum.. then atart to gigle abit letting him no ur still awake an turn ur head round to kiss him then turn back an by puting ur hand behind you to rub his penis will simply ley him know u want it again an its his turn.. he rubs his hard penius all around my bum and playing with my clitirus then easly enthers me and rides me to my sensetion!! then takes me from behind gribing my clitrus an rubing really fast giving me the most amzing orgasms ever!! i love it :):)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008):

That girl is fifteen? Are you ASKING for a peodophile?!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

one way to really mix up oral sex, if you do not do it already,is by swallowing. for what ever reason guys love it. My husband never asks much, but has asked that from the get go. As for the hand job there is no real comfortable way of doing it . Another little extra that is great during oral sex, for him anyway. is to rub the ridge that is right behind his testicles. you have to push down a little bit to find it. anyway. do that when they are ready to finish and it will send them over the top. have fun!!!!!!!!!!1

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007):

Well, I am 15 years old and the way i do it is very simple. First he lays on the bed, then i strip for him and tease him by kissing him , and playing with all his spots. After, i then start kissing him while i rub his dick gently you do that until he start moaning and gets hard. After a minute or so you lick him once, then twice, and make sure your mouth is very wet. Then you start sucking hard and as soon as he getting into it, you stop. And you kiss him, and playing with his balls, then when he is ready for you to suck him, he give him a hand job. Then after making him wait you suck him long and hard.Then if he is really into it, you can try something else. Like making him lay down on the bed, the you lay on top of him the opposite directions so that his dick in your mouth, and your pussy is in his.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2005):

Foreplay is a fundamental part of the whole lovemaking experience. Most men and women experienced in sex will agree that the best sexual encounters should include long and sensual foreplay. About handjobs, try orally sucking him in between hand pumping to give you wrists a rest. Foreplay includes a range of activities such as undressing, kissing, petting, and oral sex, erotic massage. Some tips are below

Air can be used as an erotic tool--a particularly enticing one during hot summer nights. Have your lover strip down and lie flat on the bed with their eyes closed. Then, use your breath to blow on them gently, moving from erogenous zone to erogenous zone. Soon enough, they're likely to be begging for your touch.

Fruit is delicious and sensual, whether you and your partner share an erotic snack, place a morsel in your mouths to sweeten a kiss, or lightly rub juicy pieces over one another’s bodies to lick off. Try feeding your lover a succulent strawberry or a ripe piece of mango at the end of a romantic dinner and see where it leads!

Perform your unique striptease dance for your lover. First, impose a strict look-but-don’t-touch rule. Then, as you disrobe, erotically remove articles of clothing from them, as well. Do this until you are both naked and ready for more action.

Massage is a wonderful, intimate way to be romantic with your partner, but even massages can become routine. So mix it up! One time touch your partner using only soft, feather-light strokes over every inch of their body. Another time, use different, oiled parts of your body -- like your forearms, chest, and thighs to caress and rub your partner.

I love this one! On your next big date night with your partner, tantalize them with a playful adult scavenger hunt! Hide some racy treats (your panties, bra)around the house and give your lover clues on where to find them. To add some fun to the game, you might want to shed a piece of clothing each time they find something you’ve hidden. But let them know they can’t get their real prize until they’ve found the very last one. As for what that prize is, we'll leave that to your imagination!

If you’re in a frisky mood, try playing a game of strip poker (or rummy or gin) with your partner. When you’ve both lost all of your clothes, dare each other to do silly tricks in the buff. For instance, you could dare your naked partner to do a headstand, cartwheel or jumping jacks, or attempt to give you an erotic belly or hula dance. You’re both sure to have a good laugh. Laughing with each other while naked can help boost your body confidence and is a great erotic mood enhancer.

Surprise your lover by placing a drop of flavored oil, gel or nipple balm somewhere on your body that you know your lover will lick during foreplay. Once the action starts, watch your lover’s face as they taste this unexpected treat. Chances are, he'll soon be searching your body for more

Run an ice cube over your lover's body while it melts before sex! They'll get the chills, and then you can warm them up. Bone up (excuse the pun) on your fellatio techniques. Men love their "johnson" (and some men-their testicles) pampered, licked, and sucked. But most of all, have fun, be playful and enjoy the time where you both can give each other, wonderful pleasure. Bon Appetite!

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