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writes:hi im 18 and i had an affair with my boss for the last 4 months! he is 35 married with 2 sons i broke up with him last nite i am so proud! he wanted me to get an abortion so i said dont call me ever again! i took a test im not pregnant! thank god! it is very awkward at work but i am not qutting i love my job i am not gonna let that bastard make me quit! but to all the girls out there please dont have an affair i regret it so much biggest mistake of my life and im only 18 and i hate myself for it! i am never sleeping with ever again! its not worth it at all! trust me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, wicked weasel +, writes (30 November 2006):
If you have any obscene pictures or emails from him, I suppose now is the time to ask for a raise ;)
Anyway; great job!
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reader, ariel  +, writes (30 November 2006):
 Good for you Asho.Sometimes we have to go the full hog to learn from a mistake.But it only makes us stronger and wiser and a better person in the end.I am also glad you are not pregnant.And wish you good luck for the future.
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (30 November 2006):
 Good for you. I remember you writting this question the other day. I'm glad you're not pregnant. You did the right thing breaking up with him. Sometimes in life you have to go through bad experiences in order to learn. And that's what you have done and now you're a better wiser person. bravo! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): Well done you!! It takes guts and determination to do that! I kno girls who like you started an affair at young age, waiting and hoping in vain that he'll leave his wife but that never happens and they realise its too late then as they have wasted all their young life on this b*****d! They realise too late that their friends are all settled/married with kids and she's got no one!!
so well done you!! You've got all your young life to get on with now!! Learn from the mistake look to the future now and put it down to a bad experience!!!
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reader, smeedle +, writes (29 November 2006):
 Good on you for calling the shots and calling it off.
I am glad you are not pregnant and that you have seen him for what he really is and that is just a user, he used his power to influence and seduce you and he managed to win you over and take to his bed someone a lot younger than himself and for him that was a real power trip, for you it was romantic as he made you feel special and loved, he is a rat and you just stood on his tail.
Life is a journey and as such life is never what it appears to be, nothing is clear cut, cut and dried or simple, we make right choices and wrong choices, we mend hearts, we break hearts, we sleep with the wrong people and we in turn get cheated on.
You have learnt a harsh lesson at a very early age but one that will stay with you forever,
Well done!!
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (29 November 2006):
 Good for you for doing the right thing in the end. It might be wise to change jobs so remove constant reminder of a mistake. This will allow you to move on with your life and find a more suitable partner.
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