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Girls who like girls. what are the main attributes that attract you to girls?

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Question - (25 July 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Girlies question time...........!

Based on personal experiences, have you always had an idea you were a lesbian?

I mean I have always known, I didn't go through a teenage curious stage I just took mine with the flow. I just wondered whether you'd had female urges when you were younger before you got with one or even before you got with a guy?

Also, what's the main thing that attracts you to women? I mean when you first start to realise you aren't straight after all and maybe interested in women? Is it the personality, how they 'get you' or what?!

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A female reader, agonyauntsanonymous United States +, writes (26 July 2012):

I had no idea the term pansexual even existed! But after looking it up i have to say im more pan sexual than bi sexual. Learn something new everyday lol.

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A female reader, shrodingerscat United States +, writes (26 July 2012):

shrodingerscat agony auntI am pansexual.

Women are attracted to women for the same reasons men are attracted to women. It's not difficult to tell why. Women can be beautiful and sexy, charming, funny, etc.

I realized I wasn't heterosexual when I was about sixteen. I knew that I was basically attracted to "any type" of gender/person but when I was young, I didn't realize that other people weren't also like me. It took me a while to understand that most people were only attracted to the opposite gender and very few people were pansexual like myself.

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A female reader, agonyauntsanonymous United States +, writes (26 July 2012):

Well! Im not lesbian im bisexual. I knew i was attracted to girls at about ten. Because i had urges, but i considered myself bisexual when i slept with a woman and throughly enjoyed it. I like it so much i dont care whether she does anything to me or not. Anyways. I have to say personality attracts me more than anything. Anyways im still attracted to men and am in a straight relationship. Gender doesnt matter to me as much. Its the person. I hope that helps answer ur question

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (25 July 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntI personally think everybody is different know matter what sexuality they are. I know plenty of people who have all had different experiences when coming to terms with there sexuality, and also on trying to deal with there feelings of being attracted to someone who they never thought they would have been. Yes some people always have a feeling of who they are attracted to, but I also know people who have felt they have connections with both male and female and have been left even unsure off what sex they would like to settle down with, it is just more about the person themselves than if they are male or female. I guess on this topic everyone will have a different story to tell.

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