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Girls: getting over your crush. After all, if he can't value and respect you - then who needs him?

Tagged as: Breaking up, Crushes, Health, Teenage, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Article - (21 February 2014) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A age 22-25, writes:

so you had a crush on him, and you were pretty sure he had a crush on you too.

you gave your precious heart to him, and he totally stamped it in to the ground, because the next thing you know, he's with another chick! so, what to do? firstly,

Do not sit in your bedroom hurting quietly! It will not help.

First, you tell yourself that what ever's happened, it's happened for a reason. it shows that that crush, as amazing as he was, is not right for you. so here's a list of suggestions on what to do.

1. go join your loving family. snuggle up with them on the sofa. order a pizza, or just get a nice hot choc and watch a good comedy movie/show. not a tear jerker, because the last thing you want to do is cry in to your hot choc. i doubt a salty hot chocolate would be nice. i think it'd taste, ur''' slightly saulty? involve your pets in it all if you have any. there's nothing better than to cuddle your cat and embrace her warmth. or to play fetch with your dog. or play with your fish.

2. get your friends over, and organise a sleepover. have it jam packed with makeovers, some good grub, and chitchat, because there's nothing better than to have a girlie night with the girls. now, here's the big thing.

3. The Purge: this is when you get rid of everything you can that reminds you of him, or whatever he gave you. but, if you're still friends, then i'd recommend you wouldn't delete his number from your phone.

4. go shopping with your mates, or if you're like me and you're not keen on it, go swimming, or do something you like to do with your love ones.

5. selfeez! get your friends, make each other up, not exactly pretty, but something funny, like a clown, and take pictures of each other and remember the moment.

see? after all those suggestions, who needs him? thanks for reading.

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