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Girlfriend keeps asking for money. plz help?

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Question - (2 June 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi im 32 and my girlfriend 42. we dont live together and im at parents but stay with her some nights. when shes paid she gets food and yes does get it for us both but when im paid she keeps asking for things like fags and milk and cakes and also has started asking me to help with her bills. thing is i was staying there alot and now i have said i should only stay one or two nights a week as i really cant afford to live with her and need to stay at home. i also told her not to spend any money on food when shes paid for me and that i would eat more at home and buy my own if i do stay at hers. she hasnt listened to me and done a big shop anyway and keeps asking me to stay but thing is when im paid i really cant afford to help her out with fags and bills. she keeps asking for money. what do i do? also she ask me to get her a tv licence and put it in my name but i said no.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (3 June 2012):

Honeypie agony auntWhy are you still living at home at 32?

I would help her with whatever you eat/drink. If you can't afford what she "wants", tell her.

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A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2012):

oldbag agony auntHi

Your right to say no, your not her cashpoint your her boyfriend. As you have told her not to buy food for you and have cut back on visits, then its down to her if she buys in enough for you. She is not your responsibility.

If she continues to ask for money just explain clearly that you want to date her but not to support her or move in. Then if she wants more from a man,financially and time-wise, she will just have to find somebody else.

Do you take her out - for drinks,cinema,meals etc ? Or just visit her place and hang out there?

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