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writes:I like my girlfriend soo much but does she like me?You may have read my question last night about my erection troubles and I explained about how it happened with my new girlfriend.Well we got together on saturday finally after 4 years of me liking her and her liking me 'supposedly' but it just doesnt feel like she actually wants it. Before we started going out properly she would ignore me alot when I text her and be very on-off with me, well basically its just the same now as it was then.After the disaster at hers the other night tha\t i explained in my last question she invited me round again today which made me really happy but then this morning at around eight she text me and said that she had to go into work at 7 this morning coz someone foned in sick so when she finished at 4 she was going straight to bed and said that I didnt have to worry about coming thru anymore, needless to say I was gutted!Now she just isnt texting me at all, she doesnt show me any affection really, i try to flirt etc. but i get nothing in return, she occasionally wwill text me and say she wishes i was laying next to her etc. but thats it.What am i doing wrong? if anything...It's making me feel ill and depressed as I soo want to stay with her, I am hoping that soon something will click in her mind and she will realise what she is doing. I dont wanna confront her about it though because Im worried she thinks I am being needy or clingy with her.I keep telling myself that if she didnt want or like me then she wouldnt be with me but I cant get rid of this feeling that she doesnt want me at all.Please help.
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reader, baby_101  +, writes (2 July 2009):
after reading your question it seems like to me shes not interested but wants someone around cause she doesnt want to be single she may like you but if she keeps being standoffish and ignores you and doesnt want you around then i wouldnt be with her its not worth your heart breaking over someone thats not that into you.... i know thats something you dont want to hear but thats what i think.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): You need to calm down and stop panicing. Your girlfriend might just be going through a rough ptch at the moment. She may have some kind of personal prolem at home and is feeling quite stressed. She might be a bit confused about her feelings and doesn't know how she feels.I think that it would be best to talk to her. Ask her if everythings ok with her and your relationship. If she shrugs you off or continuely stops giving you attention then maybe you should move on. A rlationship is about two people loving and caring for eachother. A one-way relationship doesn't work. Good luck. And don't worry to much. Don't get uptight either
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