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writes:My Girl breaks off our relationship. Completely caught me by surprise. the night before we had a romantic dinner in my apartment, candles and flowers and all the trimmings. Next day she texts me "I don't want to hurt you, but I don't want to be in this relationship, I want to be alone, I'm sorry if I hurt you, Goodbye" I called her and she doesnt pick up the phone. it's been a week now, I'm not contacting her at all, but will she call me? I like her a lot, But I want a woman that knows what she wants. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): what a coincidence bud.. the same thing happened to me.. but in my case I wasn't surprised - I kinda sensed it the last time we met - even though we had sex.. she was too gutless, sending me a text saying how she didn't know how to tell me otherwise.. her reason was pretty much down to the fact that she can't do this right now.. so who knows.. but when a girl sends a text like that theres no reason to even bother salvaging it.. just gotta take it like a man and move on.. i like the answer by "icelordess" she pretty much laid out the possibilities in which I concluded... this girl was actually pretty busy the couple months we saw eachother.. we would text, phone call in the evening daily on most occasions.. we only hung out a couple times a week so I guess you could say we were moving it slow.. maybe i wanted a little more time to see what could of took place.. but i have a feeling down the road I will look back and say all we really did was have sex and nothing else.. so who's too blame? but i think she chose to be single and party it up with her friends because they aren't in any relationships.. this is what happens when you meet girls in a bar.. who knows.. it's shocking yes.. but i've come to realise that everything happens for areason and too keep going on.. there are more fish in the sea my friend...good lucK!
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reader, ALONSO80 +, writes (22 April 2009):
ALONSO80 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe only dated for about three months, like 6 weeks ago she didn't speak to me for about 3 days. She told me she was "confused" but everything was fine then, and that she wanted to be with me. I wasn't in love because it was too soon, but I definitely liked her a lot. I was sure if I spent more time with her, I was going to fall completely for her. That's why I feel betrayed a little bit. She probably felt we didn't click, she probably wants another kind of guy, who knows Maybe I'll never know the reason why she did this. thanks everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): She is out of there. You will probably never find out why. Just like Icelordess said, do not assume you did anything wrong. Too bad she did not have the guts to tell you in person.
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