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writes:I need help because my girlfriend is driving me up the wall. Yesterday at some point she said she hates Xmas eve because she's 17 (I'm 21) and therefore too young to drink (in the UK) at the end of the day i text her saying do you mind if i go out Xmas eve (i honestly forgot she said that she hates Xmas eve) We've had a huge argument because she doesn't believe i forgot which i did. She still is today mad at me because i don't see it her way she thinks i don't want to spend it with her but would rather spend it with my mates, which i don't because i love her. How can i make her see that i want to spend it with her?
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reader, twilightdiamond  +, writes (17 October 2006):
 I agree with MissMo. Its easier to just say your sorry and spend christmas with her than try and convince her of something. trust me, she can't believe you now that she's said she doesn't, she wont, its a matter of pride.
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reader, MissMo +, writes (16 October 2006):
just apologize and tell her that you want to be with her on xmas eve. when you're in a relationship, she comes first - before friends. tell her this. and apologize, apologize, apologize for being insensitive and inconsiderate. (you sort of were insensitive - she told you how she felt about the holiday and you texted her a message that did not show that you understood.) then leave it to her to forgive you.
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