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Gf broke up with and I want to sort things out. Who should make the first move?

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Question - (5 October 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

hi, if your girl friend breaks up with you and you want to sort things out who should approach each other first

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A male reader, Lostandalone United States +, writes (5 October 2006):

Lostandalone agony auntI agree with pica. She broke up with you so she should call to work things out because she messed them up. I know you want to call her but you could take the chance of her hurting you even more. Your decision but I definitely wouldn't.

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A female reader, pica +, writes (5 October 2006):

Sorry I disagree with everyone else. She broke up with you, she can come and ask you back if she wants. She knew you still wanted to see her when she broke it off. If she doesn't get in touch, she doesn't want to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006):

Call her, please call her. I broke up with my bf and I really want him to call me! What have you got to loose, there's no point in living life thinking, what if I had etc etc! The worse she can say is no! Good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006):

You havent got a lot to lose if you approach her cause at the end of the day she broke it off.You could try contacting her as regards how you feel and take things from there.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006):

What was the reason that ye broke up in the first place?

I don't think it should really matter who makes the first step at sorthing things out - only if its what you BOTH really want!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006):

Hi.

I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I thought he might not want to talk to me so I figure if he wants to speak to me and wants to talk or sort something out he can approach me. It's just me but I didn't think want to break up and then call him the next day to say "hi how are you doing" considering I broke up.

But i geuss the situation is different for everyone, if you really want to sort things out give her a call

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