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Getting ready to have some fun, noticed his penis was peeling, is this a big problem or what?

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Question - (28 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2009)
A female United States age 18-21, *uriosity18 writes:

I get checked for diseases twice a year. (AIDS, std's etc)And i've always been clean. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, and hes clean also. (Well, i'm guessing hes clean, considering I've been tested while being sexually active with him, and never received any diseases!)

So, heres my question...

I've been on my period, and usually when i'm on a date with him, and we get "hot and heavy", i usually don't want to ruin the mood, b/c i'm on my period. So, i would give him a blowjob, and turn into a day of pleasure for him.

Yesterday, I was about to go down on him, and...his penis looked really dry, and skin was peeling off! I didn't want to put my mouth on it, and also didn't want to say anything or..make a reaction to it. So, i just jacked him off.

What could that mean? I know skin peels! its totally normal! but...i don't want to put my mouth on it! I don't want to embarrass him about it. Would it be okay if i go "uhh..maybe u should put some lotion on it?" or would that be rude?

I'm going on a date today with him agian, and I know things are gonna be good. What if he asks for a blowjob? What do i say?

I'm so confused, and a bit disgusted. I almost wanted to puke! Could i have sex with him, if his penis is peeling? it looks really bad, and very dry!

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A female reader, Ginalolabridga United Kingdom + , writes (29 May 2009):

Ginalolabridga agony auntI would have mentioned it to him and would still say something because it might be nothing but dry skin but if he ignores it and does not get cream for it then the problem wont just clear up, if this is something he has never had then you need to bring this to his attention.

Gina

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009):

um i dont think he was peeling it must have looked like dat maybe becuz it was really dry...

dat sometimes happens to me when i dont drink enough water/liquids..

so maybe he's dehidrated..so i dont think its a big of a deall..just get him to drink more..and hes not pealing

goood luck

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