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Gay feelings but I am straight?

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Question - (19 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2008)
A male South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im a boy and im straight.Im addicted to mustarbating and i have developed that i lost interest in girl i always want to have sex with other boys.IS THIS NORMAL?

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A male reader, xxSABBYxx Ireland +, writes (23 April 2008):

Hello Friend..

Well i can only give you my honest opinion, if you masturbate and think about sexually engaging with men, then your either gay or bi-sexual, bi-sexual in the way that you still want to possibly date women ( have sex with ) but if women is a no go, then yes your gay....

Comming out to yourself is your main priority now, log onto some website with gay porn and see if you like everything you see....be careful with meetings offline etc, your best waiting around and making sure you know what you want first..then go get it

let me know what happens

keep safe

Sabby

xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

Sounds like you're in denial about being straight. If you're only interested in having sex with men then you're gay. Saying you're straight doesn't make you straight.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (19 April 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHi honey, there are lots of hormonal changes going on in your body. You are feeling confused and I think that's totally normal. Why not just let yourself relax and get to learn what it is that really 'turns you on' before worrying so much. Being gay is not abnormal, there are lots and lots of people out there who are. I certainly won't judge you! I just think you can give yourself some time to figure it out for yourself.

What I think you should do is stop worrying too much about it, and find some other outlets for your energy too. Sport, school, friends, helping your family with the daily household chores, that kind of boring thing, LOL.

Give yourself some time, relax, don't panic! Okay?

Then come back here in a little while and ask again if you still feel confused.

Good luck, hon.

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