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writes:My girlfriend and had great sex for the first six months now she doesn't ever want to. She says she's having issues with herself. I don't know if I can believe her or not. Yes I'm a woman also. What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, supermum  +, writes (25 March 2012):
 Sounds like she needs to go to the docs and have some councelling to get over these 'issues'. The best you can do is be really understanding and try and get her to talk about what is bothering her... and then offer words of comfort and support.
Don't push her into anything... if she needs time she needs time.
If you are worried about depression and she does not want to go to the doctors, get her to talk to her chemist about going on St Johns Wort... a herbal antidepressant that can be bought over the counter. It can help x
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (25 March 2012):
 Hi There,
Can you please elaborate on what she means with issues with herself?
If she is struggling with her sexual orientation, that is one thing.
If she is struggling with her sexuality because for example, something from her past, that is another thing.
The key to either answer is: WHAT IS SHE DOING ABOUT IT?
Is she working on the issue so that she can have an emotionally healthy relationship with you or someone else, or is she content with remaining with her issues?
If she is working on herself, then stay with her.
If she refuses to work on herself, you will be unable to build a future with her so take it as a sign to move on. It is always possible that she is being passive aggressive because she actually wants to end things, but does not want to do the actual "breaking up" and is pushing you away enough so that you will break up with her. If that is the case...don't just walk away from her...RUN.
-Frank
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