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FWB, but now I'm falling for him!

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Question - (5 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey

Um I have a question about emotions and sex etc.

I have been friends with a guy for about a year, we started sleeping together a few months ago and both agreed there were no emotions involved and it was JUST sex. I have been happy with that but recently Im worried that I might be becoming emotional about it which I dont want to!!!

We were talking the other day and i jokingly said, Oh, im upset now. and he goes god you're not getting all emotional about this are you. and i laughed it off and said no.

But now im worried that i am?

if i am starting to like him what the hell am i going to do about it cos its JUST sex, always will be :(

please help

what do i do?

what's he thinking?

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2008):

lexilou agony auntHaving sex releases chemicals that lead us too fall in love, thats why you get that heady rush in a new relationship when youre at it like rabbits!!

So its always going to be hard to detach your emotions in this way when youre constantly sleeping with the same man, unless the sex is REALLY bad of course. Especially if there are other things you like about him. Some men seem to be able to keep this distance more than women though.

You have to decide whether to hang on and see if he falls in love too or cut your losses now and find a guy that will love you x

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A female reader, inneedofattention United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2008):

inneedofattention agony auntwhy were you having sex with him? i mean from his point of view it may be ok, but what isnt ok is the fact that you may get hurt in this. If he definitely does not want to get emotional in this may i suggest that the fun sex stops. you will just end up the one with the problems.he may want to get close to you so explain to him how you feel... you never know!

all of the luck and love in the world, your friend

in need of attention xxx

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A female reader, Star_07 United States +, writes (5 June 2008):

Star_07 agony auntIt is very difficult and sometimes impossible to seperate emotions and sex. Guys tend to find this easier but when they mature, it may become more difficult.

If you have been only seeing this one particular guy and are hanging around him a lot, it is no suprise if you end up liking him.

First figure out if you like him then decide what to do. How would you feel if he got a girfriend and stopped sleeping with you? Would you be upset?

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