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Frustrated by lack of libido

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Question - (1 September 2016) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2016)
A male United States age , *he Frogerster writes:

ok I'm 81. Married but wife no longer able (because of illness ) not able to have sex. I used to be able to masterbate but now I can't get excited enough to get hard to accomplish. I take lots of medication. Any thing I can take that won't interfere with my medication so I can get hard enough to masterbate? Yes, I have looked at porn but has not really helped.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (2 September 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntIf you are not in the mood to do this then why do you feel the need to? Is it something that is in your mind, or is your body telling you that you should be doing this on a regular basis? Never take anything unless you talk to your doctor first about it. The doctor will advice you based on the medication that you are taking.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (2 September 2016):

Honeypie agony auntBest thing you can do is go talk to your doctor.

He/She will know what you can take that doesn't interfere with your regular meds. Viagra is NOT safe unless you CLEAR it with your doctor.

There is no magical remedy you can take that will give you instant hard on. So really, GO talk to your doctor.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (2 September 2016):

Tisha-1 agony auntSee your doctor to discuss this! Go in with the list of all your medications and your conditions. I found some articles for you to read, this one http://www.m.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/features/romance-after-60 suggests men should have testosterone levels checked before trying anything.

http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/sexual-health/in-depth/senior-sex/art-20046465

http://www.thedoctorwillseeyounow.com/content/aging/art2067.html

If necessary see a doctor who specializes in older patients.

Good luck to you!

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A male reader, Garbo United States +, writes (2 September 2016):

Garbo agony auntOver the counter supplements like DHEA, arginine, citrulline, carnitine, coq10, yohimbine, trubulis, horny goat weed, pine bark extract, maca... all make men horny. However, I would not recommend any of this to you because of the meds you are taking. For example, DHEA shouldn't be taken if you have prostrate issues, or arginine if you take blood pressure pills. I'd suggest you do your own research and consult your doctor about this list. Of course, there is always Viagra that you can ask your doctor for.

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