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Friend trouble! How do I cope and what should I do?

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Question - (21 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, this isn't really a question! Is that ok? Well a couple of months ago I ended a relationship with a boy I've now realised I'm in love with. That may sound a little exterme - LOVE - but I am. He had many girlfriends after me and I was pretty jelous! It all started when I told my "best friend" I still liked him. Leah* being Leah obviously told him because she can't keep a secret but I'm glad she did because now we're going somewhere. He has a girlfriend now but still tells me he loves me. He can't finish her because his mum is friends with her mum and she thinks that her mum will fall out with her if my lover boy - Antony* dumps her. [confusin'] Antony asked me to meet him and I agreed. We went into town and hugged and held hands - regretably - even though he had a girlfriend he was still anxious to move onto something more. Thankfully it didnt go that far! But he did kiss me.. and i kissed him back! And I feel so bad! I bet your thinking I'm a right slag but anyway let me carry on... We kissed but just a little one - just a little peck. And I mean it, it was really a little peck. When I got home I signed onto msn and auntomatically Leah asked me how my day with Antony had been. I said it had been great and she asked me if we had kissed. I was a little unsure of what to say but finally I told her that we shared a peck on the lips. When she replied she sounded disappointed. She asked me if we snogged and I said no - and I was telling the truth. She asked me if it was a long kiss and I said no... again she sounded disppointed. Now Leah is a sh*t stirrer so she would do anything to get someone else in the sh*t. She told Tara* - Antonys girlfriend. She had a go at me calling me a slag and a slut and it really upset me and made me think.. how would I have felt if someone did that to me??? Obviously Leah told my bestest mate ever - Sarah*. She had a go at me as well saying that she thought I was different and wouldn't do anything like that to someone so she probably won't talk to me for weeks. And I don't know what to do!?!? I feel as though I can't trust anyone and I'm right. Please give me your advide!!! X KARLA X

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007):

well thanks 4 the advice.. its karla btw!! i wasnt thinkin about sex he was thinkin about a bit of a passionate kiss!

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A female reader, boots_tart United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2007):

Just be honest with everyone, that way there is no trouble. It sounds like this "antony" guy is a bit of a stirrer too. If he really loved you then he would tell his girlfriend what happened. I think its time for you to move on and show him what hes missing out on. Im sure theres plenty other boys you could be seeing.

I also think that you are too young to be thinking about sex. I lost my virginity at 14 and really regret it. I wish id waited as now im 19 in a serious 3 year relationship.

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