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anonymous
writes:Lately every time I see a cute boy I think sexual thoughts about them and I could easily get most my guy friends to do it with me If I really wanted to... Not to sound conceted. It's really hard to not think about it. What do I do. Let these feelings continue ? Or force myself to stop? Reply to this Question |
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Lol, it is very good that you have confidence, keep that up. I know this sounds silly, but you are a perfect example of Frued's 3 areas of the psyche; the Id (our animalistic, primal side), the Ego (our normal, rational side that stops the Id from acting), and the Super Ego (what we wish we could be in a perfect world).
You know you shouldn't have these thoughts and greatly want them gone (super ego), but you have these primal urges that over come your thoughts (id). You are doing a good job by just knowing that these thoughts would be bad to act on (ego).
Don't act on the thoughts, obviously, but understand that they are perfectly normal.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Ah, hormones. Just about every person your age is struggling with the same/similar feelings. I'd be surprised if you could control the feelings, since they are coming from a pretty animalistic place within you. But you can definitely control your actions. Try to not jump in bed with every guy you feel, um, excited about. Be selective, and most importantly be safe (condoms, the pill, etc). Don't make any hasty decisions.
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