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anonymous
writes:Girls, does it/would it bother you if your boyfriend sat next to, waved to, did things like highfiving, and sometimes waited with *one particular* girl he knows (but he doesnt do those things in front of you)? Would you worry that he's going to develop feelings for her, or do those things not raise any warning bells? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 November 2010):
 So he asked her out but he's with you!!
Boys can have friends who are female, do you not have any male friends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat if you knew that he had asked out that *one particular girl* before he got with you? Does that change anything, or would you still view it as "boys can have female friends"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): its okay for boys to hav friends wit the opposite sex. if u r insecure about it. i suggest u try nd becomes friends wit the gal... u myt find out that there is nothin to worry about...
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reader, RN04 +, writes (2 November 2010):
Yes, this bothers me, too. My boyfriend (I guess he's my ex now?) has a female friend that he is way too chummy with and it bothers me to no end. He insists there is nothing between them, but I disagree. There may be nothing on his end. But, I don't trust HER. Unfortunately, my boyfriend didn't listen when I told him those things bothered me. It was me being insecure. I hope maybe yours will listen. You are right. He is wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): I agree with tennisstar88, though it would be enough for me to watch their friendship a little closer, but I'm also a jealous and insecure person.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 November 2010):
No, I see no warning signs here. He's acting like a guy and waiting with a particular person who just so happens to be the opposite sex. So what?
Now if he had his arm around her, and getting all cuddly with her while waiting then we have some red flags..but there is no suspicions here just insecurities.
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