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*ola29
writes:I just had sex for the first time and we used a condom, but it slipped for a second and we both decided to put it back on the right way of course, he didnt ejaculate and we didnt do much intercourse action, but i was just wondering about it and getting a bit worried bout being pregnant and all. i had just finished my period on tht morning or the night before if that helps. i have been getting pain all over my body, acheness in thighs and some brown discharge and leftover bleeding, im guessing this is because i was a virgin and i just finished my period. he took it off after i was abit worried about the slippage and assured me we didnt need to go further and told me it was on the whole time so he didnt ejaculate and finish off. i knwo i wont know if i was pregnant till a few weeks after, but i think its because i keep stressing about it, that im beginning to believe i might be. help! and maybe some info on BCP (microgyn30?)
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reader, Honest_Answers  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 It's great to hear you used precautions! Even if a man didn't ejaculate fully they do produce a pre-ejaculation sperm that can be just as powerful as normal sperm but unless the condom slipped fully off you shouldn't be at risk. A pregnancy test will put your worries at ease. As for your health worries if the pains continue and the discharge doesn't stop you need to see your doctor.
With regard to the contraception there are lots of options these days - the 'coil' which fits inside your cervix at the top of your vagina, the implant which is placed in your arm under the skin that slowly releases hormones, the patch which works like a nicotine patch by sticking it on the skin once a week (which is my personal favourite) and finally the pill which is most common but can have some side effects that you should discuss with your doctor (the side effects are usually very minor).
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 September 2009):
Please don't panic. The best thing to do is to have a pregnancy test if you're worried at all. Good for using contraception too, that will make it more unlikely that you are. But the only way to now for sure is to take a test.
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reader, Candleman  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 What the experts say...http://www.sexetc.org/faq/pregnancy/1078Any time a girl and a guy have vaginal intercourse, there's a risk of pregnancy. No time of the month is completely safe. The problem is, ovulation can happen at different times each month. So, it's really hard to know when a woman is fertile. It is much safer to use condoms and contraceptives like the Pill. Only condoms can provide protection from most STDs.Most girls ovulate, or release an egg, about 14 days before she gets her period. The egg can only survive for about 24 to 36 hours. She can only get pregnant if sperm reach the egg while it's still alive. The problem is, ovulation can happen at different times each month. So, it's really hard to know when a woman fertile. Also, sperm can live up to five days inside a girl's reproductive system. That means, if a couple has sex on Saturday and the girl ovulates on Wednesday, she could become pregnant on Thursday.Females are least likely to become pregnant two days before their period starts and the first two days of their period. If a girl has sex on day 5 of her period and then ovulates early, say on day 10, there's a chance some sperm could still be alive and able to fertilize that egg. So, no, there is no 100% "safe time" of the month. It is much safer to use both condoms and contraceptives like the Pill. Back to me.... Just because a guy has not completely cum, doesn't mean that some won't seap out prior to this. A lot of times a guy will get to the final arousal point and then calm back down by pausing. Cum can start to seep out at this point as well. My wife and I have been together for 7 years. She started taking ortho try cyclen early on. She is very good at taking her pill (no kids 7 years), though there have been times when she was on certain medications where she had to stop taking the pill and despite our best intentions we still ended up buying the 'morning after' pill just to be on the safe side....Here's a link about these guys...http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morning_after_pill As far BCP- here is a link about oral contraceptives in general....http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_contraceptive_formulations Here is one on microgyn30...http://emc.medicines.org.uk/medicine/1827/SPC/Microgynon%2030/As far as taking them, I can't help out much here. Let the women help you more. Though my wife loves the generic ortho tri cyclen she's been taking for 7 years. When her insurance didn't cover these, we were able to buy them cheaper in Canada (though I think we were breaking the law. shhh) Last, I personally am very wary about any new type of drug on the market ( in this case the birth control patchwould be one.) What's good about oral contraceptives is that they have been on the market since 1961 and the risk and complications have been studied. So, I would feel safer taking these. BTW, do look at the risk taking these in order to help you make your decision.Good Luck...
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